JORDI

Stop performing · Start living

JORDI

Stop performing · Start living

You've followed the script to perfection.
So why does it feel like something's still missing?

You built the life that made sense. The one that looked responsible, that others approved of, that checked the right boxes.

And you're good at it. You show up, you deliver, you adapt.

But something keeps pulling at you from the inside. Not loudly — not yet. Just persistently enough that you can't quite ignore it anymore.

That pull isn't weakness. It's a signal.

You might recognize this feeling

You think you know what you want.
But somewhere underneath, there's a nagging sense that what you're chasing isn't really yours.

You've spent years learning to fit in: your family's expectations, your culture, your workplace, your community.
And you've gotten very good at it.

You're not in crisis. Nothing is visibly wrong.
That's exactly what makes it hard to explain.

You just know that the version of yourself you're presenting to the world isn't the whole story.
And you're tired of this disconnection.

What happens when you reconnect

When people come to me, they're usually not sure exactly what they need. They just know something isn't working. And that something has been building quietly for a long time.

Then something shifts.

You start seeing clearly what you want and what you don’t.
You know which changes are yours to make, and you feel ready to make them.
You begin living in a way that finally feels honest. Not performing, not adapting. Just you.

This isn't about reinventing yourself.
It's about coming back to who you already are, underneath all the noise.
And finally rewriting the script on your own terms.

I've been where you are

I'm Jordi, a Life Coach certified through Wayfinder, an ICF-accredited program.

For years I lived almost entirely in my head. As a computer engineer, logic was my tool for everything — it made me effective, reliable, and quietly cut off from myself.

Being a gay man added its own layer of scripts. Coming out wasn't the end of the performance; it was the beginning of a new one. There were community expectations, new molds to fit, new ways to belong. I kept adapting, and kept drifting.

When the facade finally crumbled and I felt empty, I stopped. Coaching gave me back what reason alone couldn't: access to my body, my emotional world, and a clarity that grows from the inside out, reclaiming my own voice.

“Jordi’s open-hearted, radiant, and non-judgmental presence is impossible to learn from a book. It always makes me feel at ease, helping me access the insight to solve my problems and making my life easier and more joyful.”

Amy, PhD · Neuroscientist and meditation instructor

Ready to begin?

One-on-one sessions, via Zoom.

Single Session
60 €A good place to start if you want to experience the process, or to bring a specific topic.
No commitment. Go at your own pace.

Growth Pack – 6 sessions
300 €The path I recommend for deep, lasting change.
We work at your pace, usually every two weeks.
A real commitment. To yourself.

Not sure yet? Let's just talk

I offer a free 30-minute discovery session. No pitch, no pressure. Just a conversation to see if this feels right.

From analysis to presence

For most of my adult life, I lived in my head.

As a computer engineer, the rational mind was my home base. Logic, analysis, control — not just professional tools, but how I navigated everything. I was efficient, capable, and largely disconnected from myself. It worked well enough that I didn't question it for years.

This need to fit in also shaped my path as a gay man. I realized the challenge wasn’t just “coming out” and leaving heteronormative scripts behind — it continued with the pressure to adapt to the molds of the LGBTQ+ community. Often, I found myself compromising my essence just to belong.

From the outside, things looked fine. More than fine. But internally, something had been hollowing out for a long time. Eventually I couldn't ignore it anymore. I stopped. And for the first time in a long time, I started paying attention to what was actually there.

That process of self-discovery led me to the work of Martha Beck, and to her Wayfinder coaching methodology. What it gave me wasn't just answers. It was a reconnection with something I'd been overriding for years: my body, my emotional world, a clarity that didn't come from reasoning but from listening.

I know that disconnection: looking successful to the world while feeling lost within. And I know, deeply, that the way back isn't through more thinking.

Today, I bring both sides of who I am to this work. I use the analytical clarity of my engineering background to help you see your patterns with precision. And I ground my work in presence: the kind of intuitive knowing that only comes from listening.

The answers are already in you, underneath the scripts and the noise. My role is simply to help you hear them.

My compass: I believe in a process grounded in the freedom to be yourself, your continuous growth, and the genuine cheerfulness of living the journey.